Not sitting around waiting for my life to begin, just waiting for my ship to come in

Ever have those people in your life who are always waiting for something to happen to them?  Whether it be good or bad?  They just stay stagnate where they are waiting….  One thing I have learned in this life is that if you keep waiting for your life to happen it will pass you by.  I have never been one to just sit around and wait, you never get anywhere that way!  I have spent my entire life learning and if I could afford it, I would have been one of those people who stayed in college for life just so I could learn about everything that intrigues me.  In some ways, I think this leads to a single life because that love of spontaneity and need for change leaves others a bit baffled in their stagnate, predictable lives.  Many years ago I had the opportunity to marry a man who would have me kept very well for the rest of my life.  When I looked at him I saw my entire future and I didn’t like how predictable that would be and I wanted my life to be an adventure.  I have no regrets about not being whisked off to California back in 1990 because my life has been anything except predictable.  The good and the bad all has made me who I am and I am proud of the woman I am these days.  It wasn’t that long ago when I stumbled and lost my faith in myself, but it didn’t last long and off to a new adventure I ran looking for my life, not sitting and waiting for it to happen.  People ask me why I keep to myself so often and I truly know that in solace one finds themselves.  The last two years have taught me that and now that I have found myself again I am ready to take this life by the horns again, I am an Aries after all!  So if you find yourself stuck in a rut, do something completely out of character and stop waiting for your life to happen!  Get on it y’all!!!!

The Details
Body – Maitreya
Skin – DeeTaleZSam
Hair – ElikatiraKaree
Earrings – MevaBoho – Sept
Necklace – KunglersAnais
Bracelets – KunstDarek
Top and Pants – NoName – Daisy ONLY $249 @ Boho Culture Fair 2015
Decor Details
unKindness – Waterside Market Gacha Collection @ Wayward Halloween Gacha 
Have a wonderfully wicked rest of your day and remember to always stay true to your style and make today’s fashion and decor trends work for you!

#275 @ Cosmopolitan & On9 & Designer Circle

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on Irina Nicholls:

Hair: [DUE] Karin – [TSS Anniversary Gift] @ The Seasons Story
Glasses: AsHmOoT_Acc Coll_Nerd Glasses @ Designer Circle
Bow: Fawny – Velvet Bow – [TSS Anniversary Gift] @ The Seasons Story
Sweater: ::FAC:: Isadora Sweater
Necklace: ANE 201 Angel Heart Necklace
Bracelets: Chop Suey – Regina Salve Bracelet – [Gift]
Ring: Chop Suey – The Celebration Ring – [Gift]
Shorts: MoDANNA [Metz Collection] High Waist Shorts
Knotted Shirt: Overhigh – Knotted Izzie Shirt – [Hunt Gift]
Bag: Shey – Bahamia Handbag – [Group Gift]
Shoes: Wicca’s Wardrobe – Seraphina Heels @ On9
Men’s Pose: BellePoses – Khalifa @ Cosmopolitan Bi-Weekly Event
Shelf/Chest: Serenity Style –  Soul Happy Chest @ On9

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Waterside Market Collection from unKindness!

I have never really been quite sure how my mother got into Jazz music at a young age but I have to say I am very grateful because that grew into Soul and R&B.  I can’t think of a time when Aretha Franklin, Marvin Gaye, Otis Redding or others from that era weren’t playing in our home.  We didn’t watch a lot of television but we spent a lot of time going through records and sitting at the piano together.  Those days hold some of my fondest memories and singing became an outlet for me, which I cannot thank my Mother enough for, because without that release there are times I don’t think I would have gotten through without it.  As I was decorating this scene with the new gacha goodies from unKindness one of my favorite songs started playing its way through my head that fit the mood of the scene I was trying to create.  So join me down on the end of the dock for a little while; dangle your feet in the water and just relax for a bit with your favorite beverage and close your eyes for a moment and be carried away to a place where time moves more slowly, and the tides mark the hours of the day.

unKindness truly sets the scene for any Southern Bayou, waters edge, or river sim and is a perfect addition to any photo sim to add a bit of rustic, Southern charm with their Waterside Market Gacha collection.  The entire set is available only at the Wayward Halloween Gacha event until Midnight SLT October 31st!  Each piece is uniquely designed with an incredible attention to detail that brings the entire set together seamlessly, from the outside scene, to the market inside.  
The crates, barrels and foods can be placed inside and around the market along with the wonderful palette desk and matching accessories.  If you are looking for truly unique, original mesh creations to decorate your surroundings then make sure to head on over to the event and pick up these fantastic pieces from unKindness, I promise you won’t be disappointed!
Gacha Key
unKindnessWaterside Market @ Wayward Halloween Gacha til 12am SLT Halloween Night!